... but ... can ... works for me either. I went to an AA group they had one woman in there that had anger problems like me. Everyone else was AA or NA. I...
It is so hard when people close to you know exactly what buttons to push to make you mad. And they do to and always push them. What I have been told is it is...
Hello. I am somewhat in a pickle and seeking advice. I am seperated from my wife, divorce pending, have three sons 16, 4 and 3. I currenty travel a lot with...
Chuck , I would tell your son that he can help you find your cat in everyway possible and if she is still not found in a month OR SO , and depending on your...
Thanks Dave. It is so true, that they know what buttons to push and they seem to like doing it so they can see just how far they can push you. It has been a...
It sounds like your mom and my mom do a lot of the same thing to us. I know that my mom has done and said things just to get a rise out of me and when I...
... in ... out ... was ... the ... completely ... failing ... maby dear abby can help, felt like punching anyone lately?explode in public?kick a big dent in...
My spouse does the same. He starts on his need for negative attention and its like I am a dog or something. If what is said could hit me I would be in the...
I have a friend that has to ask why on almost everything I say. It only takes about 2 mins and I am ready to blast her to kingdom come and I do. I rarely cuss...
Dear Friends, Life is such a struggle right now and I feel no one cares for me at all! Some are you are going to be happy with me cause I told my mom good...
[Moderator response: Will do! Sorry! On rare occasions, postings get through that shouldn't when I am extra busy and don't do my job as well as I should.] ...
Sorry I am late. Catching up tonight. I was on a zillion different antidepressants. Then I read about a class that my mother uses of antidepressants called...
Good sugestion Dave. But one has been continuing in the same thought process for many many years. How can one start thinking differently suddenly. Isn't it you...
We are beyond family counseling lol. It is just a finger pointing session. Sometimes I will go into her therapy session or she mine if we really have an issue...
I agree with Chuck. Dale was inappropriately dismissive of Chauncey's very real and honest email. Chauncey, I hope you don't dismiss this yahoo group as...
yes i guess your on the money i will bow out of this group i guess i get a bit angry when a place that is supposed to be a support tool for anger is used for...
Hi all, This is Ron Huxley, founder of this list and the Angertoolbox/ParentingToolbox websites. I am posting a question about "Raging Children" in my online...
Brendy , I have felt a lot like you are feeling . When my first marriage ended , a friend of mine told me that she knew he was cheating on me . I told her I...
Priyan asked, "How can one start thinking differently suddenly." This is an excellent question, and one I've asked myself a million times, it seems. I dislike...
[Moderator comment: The group owner allowed this latest message from Dale to get posted. Dale made a valid point, and I'm surprised that you find this...
I have known folks who would manipulate others, pushing their buttons, and then having a good ole time, going, "Look at what I can make that fool do!" You are...
yes i am in AA and i have yet to recieve my cap and gown it was hard to let drugs and alcohol go but the real problem is facing all the issues inside myself...
I'm relatively new to the group and have only posted one time (my introduction). I have to agree with Dale that this is an Anger support group. Those of us...
Dale I can see what you are saying. The cat issue is, perhaps, just an indication of the overall mess that Chauncey is in. I find myself fixated on one minor...
i will tell you this there is a 72 year old friend i have in AA and he is retired from the army and he shoots straight from the hip and tells me like it is and...
Dear Friends, Hi, I am having surgery complications again. I went to my doctor yesterday to get my staples taken out. They took them out, and when I sat...
... yesterday to get my staples taken out. They took them out, and when I sat up blood was coming out big time. Talk about a big scare. The doc just took...
Hi all, this is Ron Huxley, owner of the list. I appreciate Carey (our dedicated moderator) for stepping in and speaking up on this issue. I agree with his...
I guess I was snot real clear and ma truly sorry. What I meant was just that
you do not have to change to what's someone wants you to be just change how
you...